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Tiny Salespeople At The Office

Life Advice / Miss Manners /

DEAR MISS MANNERS: What do you think about employers who let their children come around the workplace to sell goodies to their employees? And worse yet, what about when the boss himself escorts his child around the building to sell stuff?

Yeah, I know, it's always for a good cause, but isn't that putting people on the spot, and not in very good...Read more

A Blah Marriage Begs for Some Spicing Up

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I'm at a stage in my life where personal growth has taken hold in the absence of my husband. My husband is still here and alive, but he frequently travels for work, and I am often left to my own devices for days at a time as a stay-at-home mom of two young boys. I've taken to calling these days "idle time," as if the engine of our ...Read more

Man's Holiday Party Could End Up Being A Lonely Event

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: We have a mutual friend who's very dear to us. He's a kind-hearted and generous disabled vet who's too proud to ask for help. Unfortunately, due to his ill health and physical limitations, his home is unkempt. He lives among piles of dusty trash, empty cartons, unfinished projects, dirty clothes and even animal messes. It smells very ...Read more

Millennial Life: The Cycling Potentials of Life

The refrain I repeated to my daughter was that, much like filling in eyebrows with makeup, the wings lined onto each eye she was "crashing out" over could be sisters, not twins. They don't need to be identical. "But again, let's tone it down in the future. That liner isn't really a day look."

It could be a controversial take to let her ...Read more

Asking Eric: After 30 years, company’s cold retirement sendoff stings

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: One year after my retirement I am still feeling confused and hurt for not receiving a “retirement gift” from my long-time employers. I worked for a family-owned realty company for nearly 30 years. I am not a family member.

We started out as just four of us while the company expanded into one of the largest real estate firms in ...Read more

Dear Annie: Husband Unwilling to Give Affection

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My husband and I love each other very much, but we have grown apart for a while now. I've done my best to be a good and loving wife, yet it seems to be hard for him to give me physical affection. He says he loves me and doesn't want to be without me, yet we physically seem to be 1,000 miles away.

I try to be affectionate, but it ...Read more

Effort To Be A Good Grandpa Doesn't Go As Planned

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: Ten years ago, I connected with "Christi," a daughter I fathered with a woman I was in a relationship with for a short time decades ago. We split before Christi was born. My ex-girlfriend didn't tell me about her until after she was born. By that time, she was married to a man Christi knew as her dad. However, she no longer ...Read more

Asking Eric: Man struggles to re-connect with old friends

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I am a married man in my early 40s with no kids.

My wife does a good job keeping in touch with friends of hers from her childhood and throughout the years in her life despite not living near them and being in different phases of life.

It's admittedly a lot harder for me. I have a few close buddies that I continue to keep in touch ...Read more

Couple Ponders Real Estate Investment

Life Advice / Sense & Sensitivity /

DEAR HARRIETTE: I live with my boyfriend. We rent an apartment together and split all of our expenses. I've been able to save up, and now I am interested in investing in real estate. I don't know what that means for me and my boyfriend, though. I mentioned my interest to him a few months back to see what he thinks, and he thinks real estate ...Read more

The Case Of The Slippery, Sliding Salmon

Life Advice / Miss Manners /

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I frequently attend luncheons at which the entree consists of bagels, lox (smoked salmon) and cream cheese.

Bagels have grown in size substantially since my childhood. Nowadays, a whole bagel is too much for me, so I carefully take one half with the tongs provided. I spread it with cream cheese, then lay a slice or two of lox...Read more

Caught Between Daughter and Granddaughter

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My daughter, 31, left home at 19 to attend university. Within weeks, she began dating a boy she'd met through the school's Facebook group. Coming from our cultural background, we weren't comfortable with relationships outside marriage, but after two years, she moved in with him, mostly on her terms. They lived together for six ...Read more

Sensor Light Illuminates More Than One Problem

Life Advice / Dear Abby /

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have lived in a country home for the past 25 years. When we moved here, our only neighbors were wild turkeys, deer and raccoons. Behind our house were 20 acres of woods, which extended into a cornfield. We were isolated and loved it.

Since then, a housing development has slowly been built around us. Last fall, a couple ...Read more

Asking Eric: Decades later, bullies still have power

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I’m 75 and I have a problem I've dealt with for a long time. It has to do with bullies. In school I had fists shaken in my face, I was laughed at because I was skinny, shy and had bad pimples. I couldn't wait to leave school each day.

At a very large company I did well professionally, however, the bullying never stopped. It ...Read more

When Healthy Habits Turn Into Unhealthy Critiques

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: When my boyfriend decided to get serious about his health earlier this year -- cleaner eating, regular workouts -- I was super proud of him. I cheered him on and swapped out our snacks without complaint. For the first few months, it brought out the best in him.

But somewhere along the way, his personal reboot turned into an ...Read more

Asking Eric: Parents struggle with cutting off financially dependent daughter

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: My daughter will be 37 in a month but has never been able to completely support herself. She has a degree from a good university but is unable to keep a job for more than a year or so.

She presently works as a restaurant hostess at a high-end restaurant. She has lived with her younger boyfriend for five years with no plans to marry. ...Read more

How To Keep the Peace When He Won't Hold His Tongue

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: Christmas at my parents' house used to feel magical, but lately it feels like I'm walking into a performance review. My older brother's new hobby is "radical honesty," and apparently the holidays are his favorite time to practice. Last year, as we decorated the tree, he announced that my handmade ornaments looked "like a Pinterest ...Read more

Dreamstime/Dreamstime/TNS

Ask Anna: How do you know if early chemistry means anything when he's still dating around?

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

Dear Anna,

I’m 24 and recently started seeing a guy I’ve had a crush on for six months. We finally went on two dates and both went incredibly well. He was affectionate, introduced me to his friends, cooked me dinner, even cleared a little space on his bathroom shelf for my toothbrush. It all felt very sweet and intentional, and I left his ...Read more

Single File: Lifestyle Questions From the Survey

Life Advice / Single File /

This week, the questions are geared toward those who are single again and have no children living at home. Next week, we'll turn the focus to those who have never been married.

--Has your sex life become freer, less inhibited, less routine since becoming single again? (About 55 percent said yes.)

--Why are you single again? (About 79 percent ...Read more

Aeaechan/Dreamstime/TNS

Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do I balance 'You deserve zero red flags' with the reality that no one is perfect?

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

I got this interesting question recently, and it made me think. And when things make me think, you know I have to write about them!

Q: How do I balance ‘You deserve zero red flags’ with the reality that no one is perfect? Thank you!

A: Those are VERY different things. A red flag, by my definition, is objective: Someone is rude to people. ...Read more

Asking Eric: Readers offer creative ways to address divorce in Christmas cards

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Readers: On November 9, I answered a letter from someone who was trying to find a way to acknowledge her impending divorce in her Christmas cards, which would contain a photo of the letter writer and her kids, sans soon-to-be amicable ex. I made a few suggestions and invited you to lend your wisdom. Here are a few great suggestions and one ...Read more

 

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