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Lori Borgman: A keeper of tradition all lit up
There are days I feel like the last surviving gatekeeper to tradition. My mission is to keep the holidays from crashing into one another.
In my rich fantasy world, Labor Day is followed by Halloween, Halloween is followed by Thanksgiving and Thanksgiving is followed by Christmas. Never do they meet, mix or mingle. Welcome to dreamland.
The ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Staying up too late at dad's house?
Q. My daughter comes home from her dad’s house telling me that her father lets her stay up until 10 o’clock at night and doesn’t cook dinner. She’s 6. She needs her sleep and nourishing food. I get so worked up; I don’t want her to go. And I don’t know exactly what to say to her when she tells me these things. What’s good ex-...Read more
A clear-eyed, big-hearted memoir about grief, grit and the places that hold us
"My Mountains: Our Family’s Story of Adventure, Mysteries, and Tragedy" opens on a blue-sky Colorado day and a text message no parent wants to receive.
From that first, shattering scene, author Chris Smith carries readers into a life measured not only by summits and trail miles, but by the stamina of a family learning to love through pain. ...Read more
When the hunt turns inward: 5 psychological thrillers where madness shadows the chase
In today’s most compelling crime fiction, the chase is never just about the killer — it’s about the fragile minds drawn into the hunt. These five thrillers plunge deep into the psychology of obsession, pairing haunted investigators with murderers who blur the boundaries between predator and prey.
Set against backdrops of small-town ...Read more
How To Help Kids Handle Money
Q: We want to help our kids learn how to handle money in practical ways. Do you have any suggestions?
Jim: I think many parents overlook a key financial application: paying for extracurricular activities. We all know these things can take a big bite out of the family budget. But we're usually happy to make that sacrifice because we know the ...Read more
Hello Experts, Goodbye Common Sense
How did we get to the point where having an old-fashioned seesaw on the playground is something almost no park district would consider? Or that students crossing the street to visit the firehouse must get a signed waiver? Or that a school bus can't let a 7-year-old off at the bus stop unless there's an adult waiting there to walk them home half ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'ZOOTOPIA 2'
Rated PG for action/violence and rude humor.
What it’s about: Unlikely buddy cops Judy Hopps and Nick Wilde tackle another case of corruption in Zootopia, where all animals live together in somewhat harmony.
The kid attractor factor: The original is a beloved, Oscar-winning animated film. Kids will be drawn to the style, humor ...Read more
Anti-abortion group founder charged in S.C. Planned Parenthood shooting
The founder of an anti-abortion group has been charged in connection with a shooting outside a Planned Parenthood in South Carolina earlier this month.
Mark Baumgartner, 56, was arrested Tuesday in connection with the Nov. 14 incident, during which a man was shot during a confrontation outside the Columbia Planned Parenthood, according to local...Read more
South Carolina anti-abortion group founder arrested following Planned Parenthood shooting
COLUMBIA, S.C. — The founder of an anti-abortion group who shot and wounded a man during a confrontation in front of Planned Parenthood in Columbia has been arrested.
According to records from the Alvin S. Glenn Detention Center in Columbia, Mark Baumgartner was taken into custody Tuesday.
Baumgartner is being charged with assault and ...Read more
South Carolina anti-abortion group founder arrested following Planned Parenthood shooting
COLUMBIA, S.C.— The founder of an anti-abortion group who shot and wounded a man during a confrontation in front of Planned Parenthood in Columbia has been arrested.
According to records from the Alvin S. Glenn Detention Center in Columbia, Mark Baumgartner was taken into custody Tuesday.
Baumgartner is being charged with assault and battery...Read more
The untold story of the psychologist who mapped human bonds
In "Searching for Bowlby: The Life of John Bowlby," C.V. Wooster has written a comprehensive biography about the life and work of Dr. John Bowlby, the noted British psychiatrist who devoted most of his career to studying the links of the emotional bond (or lack thereof) between parent/guardian and their child and how the child’s development ...Read more
A thoughtful exploration of how culture, nature and consciousness intertwine
Jane Gallagher’s reflective memoir explores one big question: What does it mean to become conscious, both personally and collectively amid shifting beliefs, power structures and ecological awareness?
If you’ve ever found yourself contemplating how much of what you believe comes from the world around you vs. how much comes from within ...Read more
Lori Borgman: An alarming happening at the grocery store
I set off the alarm at the grocery store over the weekend. I wasn’t going to mention it, but it’s always best to get ahead of a breaking news story. My story, my spin.
I’ve never set off an alarm before.
I take that back. I set off the smoke alarm in the kitchen about once month, but high heat with cast iron does that. Other than that, ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Dealing with different parenting styles
Q: My ex and I constantly argue about our parenting styles. I'm structured; he's loose. I worry that the differences confuse our kids. He thinks I'm too strict. I think he's too laid back. What is good ex-etiquette?
A: I bet you had similar disagreements when you lived together. One of you gave in or you compromised because the relationship ...Read more
'We can't just teach abstinence': How advice on bed-sharing with a baby is evolving
When Emily Little gave birth to her first child, sleeping together with her baby in bed was a given — despite all the public health messages telling her not to.
"I knew it was something that I wanted to do," said Little, a perinatal health researcher and science communications consultant who has studied cultures around the world that bed-...Read more
Being Grateful Is A Choice
Q: I struggle every year when Thanksgiving approaches. I know I should be more grateful than I am; I just don't know how to get a better handle on it. Help?
Jim: Let's be honest -- we can all use more gratitude. The good news is that the answer is pretty straightforward. We just have to choose to be grateful.
That's what Drs. Les and Leslie ...Read more
A Thanksgiving Turkey to Forget
I'll start by making a few things clear:
I love my father, I love cooking and I love Thanksgiving.
And now that the throat-clearing is done, I can move on to the complaining.
Because of all dishes in all the holidays on the calendar, there's nothing like the Thanksgiving turkey for getting under your skin. And last year, it got under mine ...Read more
This Thanksgiving: Thanks for Not Being Chicken, Moms!
I'm thrilled to have cowritten this piece with Esther Wojcicki, author of "How to Raise Successful People." We think that some of the most thankful people in America this year might be the moms you see on Instagram who let their kids do something new on their own -- and that their kids are super thankful too!
This independence-sharing moment ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'WICKED: FOR GOOD'
Rated PG for action/violence, some suggestive material and thematic material.
What it’s about: The second act of the hit Broadway musical adaptation comes to the screen in part two, in which Glinda truly learns what it means to be "good."
The kid attractor factor: Kids will be drawn to the magical world of Oz, the songs, ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Separation anxiety
Q: How do I know if my children are truly safe when they move between two homes -- and I rarely talk to their mom? What should I do if something feels "off"? What's good ex-etiquette?
A: This is one of the most common questions I hear from newly separated parents, and it makes perfect sense. When families reorganize, children begin living in ...Read more
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