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After ICE raids, this Venezuelan mom fled from LA to Mexico. Will she find refuge there?
Jerardyn sat quietly on the bus, her mood relaxed as her eyes scanned the fleeting horizon of Southern California one August afternoon.
But as the U.S.-Mexico border wall, a towering barrier of steel pillars, came into view, she began taking big, deep breaths. Her heart began to race as she clutched her immigration documents and tried to hide ...Read more

Family guide to new movie releases
'THE SMASHING MACHINE'
Rated R for language and some drug abuse.
What it’s about: A biopic of MMA fighter Mark Kerr, following his career in the late '90s.
The kid attractor factor: This is a serious adult drama, not for younger audiences.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Some of those with the most guts don’t get all the glory.
Violence: ...Read more

Ex-etiquette: An ethical question
Q. This is sort of an ethical question. My ex-wife remarried two years ago and even though this sounds a little weird, I find I like him, poor unsuspecting sap. I can tell he cares about my kids and he’s actually a good influence.
Here’s the deal. My ex has always liked her wine, and I suspect it’s causing some problems over there. Her ...Read more

Lori Borgman: Caught off gourd by pumpkins gone wild
I am an accidental gardener. If anything I plant grows to maturity, and by some fluke of nature becomes edible, it is sheer accident.
If we had to survive on what I grow, we would both be very, very thin. Spaghetti thin. We are not spaghetti thin; we are more like rigatoni.
Several years ago, I dreamed of growing potatoes. I threw some ...Read more

6 thrillers that prove secrets never stay buried in small towns
There’s something about a small town that makes it the perfect setting for a thriller. On the surface, you’ve got quiet streets, neighbors who wave as they pass, kids riding their bikes without a care. But scratch just a little deeper and you’ll often find lies stacked as neatly as wood piles, secrets pressed down tightly, hidden well, ...Read more

A heart-pounding tale of courage, compassion and the cost of care
It’s always a treat as a reader to find a book that delivers a powerful social message as well as tells a good story, and that’s exactly what we get in "Under Their Watch" — Charlie Ketchey’s compelling and moving novel about the challenges facing a pair of dedicated child-care workers.
Child-care caseworker Cameron Springer and John ...Read more
Take It Slow When Blending Family
Q: I recently became an instant stepparent when I married a relatively young widower with two children. I'm doing my best to learn how to be "mom" for my stepkids. But it's a LOT harder to connect than I expected. Help!?
Jim: Stepparenting can be rewarding, but it also comes with significant challenges. In your case, there's the added factor of...Read more
Sorry, But I'm Going to Keep Calling You 'Mr.'
I got called "Georgia" by one of my son's friends the other day.
I wasn't insulted -- I know from firsthand experience that kids nowadays have a startling familiarity with adults. My own son and his cousin, both 6 years old, once walked up to my husband's 70-year-old uncle when they saw him smoking a cigar and lectured him on its dangers.
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Linking autism and Tylenol: 'This seems like we're going back 20 years'
BALTIMORE -- Pam Stiner can’t even remember if she took Tylenol when she was pregnant with her now 10-year-old son, but the Trump administration’s linking of the over-the-counter painkiller to autism on Monday brought back the self-reproach she felt when he was diagnosed as on the spectrum.
“It’s taken me 10 years to get to the point ...Read more

Family guide to new movie releases
'ONE BATTLE AFTER ANOTHER'
Rated R for pervasive language, violence, sexual content, and drug use.
What it’s about: A former revolutionary has to regain his skills and reunite with his comrades to save his daughter.
The kid attractor factor: This is an incendiary political adult drama — not much appeal for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons:...Read more

Lori Borgman: You won't sleep after you read this
My husband is one of those people who can sleep anywhere, anytime.
He can sleep sprawled halfway on and halfway off the sofa, in a straight-back chair, with three grands crawling all over him styling his hair, and during cross-country flights with severe turbulence.
It’s a gift. The man is so gifted he can even fall asleep while I’m ...Read more

Ex-etiquette: Gone too long?
Q. My ex and I were married when we were very young. We had a child soon afterward, but my ex left us, and we were divorced nine months later. I have not seen or heard from him in 8 years. I remarried a wonderful man when my son was a year and a half old and he is the only father my son has known. Today I got a phone call from my ex’s aunt who...Read more

What's up with boys? A discussion with Jim Steyer of Common Sense Media
SAN JOSE, Calif. -- Amid a nationwide “masculinity crisis” that has caused boys and young men to gravitate toward traditional gender roles and often misogynistic content, researchers, columnists and political leaders have sought to understand a simple question: What’s up with boys?
To Jim Steyer, the CEO of the media literacy company ...Read more
NC bill bars Planned Parenthood from Medicaid, drawing concern on access to care
RALEIGH, N.C. — North Carolina Senate Republicans on Monday rolled out legislation to bar Planned Parenthood from the state’s Medicaid program.
The measure would require the state’s health and human services department to remove Planned Parenthood as a Medicaid provider, cancel any contracts with it and shift patients to other providers. ...Read more

Victim turned vigilante hunts con artists and shares most common red flags
The art of the con is just as much a part of human nature as the need for food, shelter, water and clothing. People have been attempting to get something for nothing, or get by with something, for as long as humans have been contemplating the meaning of life.
In "Anatomy Of A Con Artist," author and podcaster Johnathan Walton, himself a victim ...Read more

How to turn your home into the neighborhood hangout spot
With the new school year underway, you’ve likely heard new names — and requests to have friends over.
For elementary schoolers, typically that means getting the other parents’ contact information and setting up a playdate. However, things change for middle school and high school students.
Making your home a place where older kids and ...Read more

How to build a cult following: Lessons from fiction’s most charismatic manipulators
Why do we root for people we’d cross the street to avoid in real life? Fiction is crowded with liars, schemers, stalkers, even killers … and somehow, they have fan clubs. Whether it’s Tom Ripley’s suave cons, Amy Dunne’s razor-sharp vengeance, or Joe Goldberg’s murderous devotion, these characters inspire not just fascination but ...Read more
Older Generation Needs Love And Care, Too
Q: Now that my husband and I are empty nesters, we have more time on our hands and want to invest it in something else meaningful. Can you offer any suggestions?
Jim: During the parenting season, we understandably place great emphasis on the next generation: the children growing up today who will become the leaders of tomorrow. That's certainly...Read more
An Obituary for Earnestness
A 99-year-old woman died yesterday. Though I'd never met her, I cried as I read her obituary.
Her name was Marilyn Hagerty, and even as a nonagenarian, she was still writing the same gentle restaurant reviews that had made her briefly but brilliantly famous.
She wasn't famous in the new way -- she wasn't on TikTok, and she didn't have a ...Read more
Junk Science and a Fragile Baby
Chelsea F.'s baby, Teddy (both pseudonyms used at the family's request), was born with serious genetic problems -- heart defects, breathing issues and brain abnormalities. But when Chelsea rushed the 5-month-old to a Texas emergency room in January after he developed a fever, seizures, vomiting and what was later determined to be a brain bleed...Read more
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