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From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham

Q: Social media has done more to influence people for the bad. Few people think before they post, and rarely do people think about how hurtful and insensitive their words are to others. Why is this? – E.P.

A: One day, the owner of a club was with members discussing golf. Someone turned to him and said, “By the way, what is your handicap?” Immediately, the man replied, “Myself!” How true that is! Self, the capital I, is the universal problem, the handicap of all people, and we clearly see that “I” is in the middle of this word sin! The Bible tells us that the Lord hates seven things … “a proud look” (Proverbs 6:16–19, NKJV). Notice! A proud look is the first thing that God hates.

There seems to always be good and bad to every form of new technology. The internet can be used to preach God’s Gospel, and with a quick tap, pornography can pop up. Wisdom and self-discipline are required when using the technology of the day, just as it was when television came into existence. But there is no question; obsessing about “self” is destructive.

Perhaps the greatest sin that has crept into the lives of Christians is the sin of pride. No one can expect victory and inward rest until the capital “I” has been conquered. God commands us to humble ourselves (see James 4:10). That is our job! If we are to live above the clouds, the sin of pride will have to be confessed and forsaken. It is deadlier than the poison of a rattlesnake. It stunts, stifles, weakens, and destroys Christian victory. Pride comes from looking only at ourselves; meekness comes through looking at God.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)

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