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Q: It seems like whenever I try to make some improvement in my life, like developing a good habit or learning a new skill, I fall short of my goals. I seldom make as much progress as I hope, and it's very discouraging. Do you have any advice?

Jim: I'd say that one of the greatest barriers to success is an "all or nothing" attitude. That's when ...Read more

Q: My wife and I have been married for about four years. We're both a bit concerned that our relationship is already starting to seem a little stale. Is that normal? What can we do about it?

Jim: I get it. When Jean and I first started dating, she lived in Orange County and I lived in San Diego. During those courting days I was willing to go ...Read more

Q: My wife and I just got married. We're working on setting realistic financial goals and sorting out our budget, but we're a little stuck on knowing how much to save (especially for emergencies). Do you have any suggestions?

Jim: Most married couples find out quickly that money can (and often does) set the tone for your entire relationship. It...Read more

Q: I'm a mom in a house of boys (three young sons, one husband). I grew up with two sisters myself -- i.e., "just us girls" -- so the constant competition between my little guys has been a real shock. Should I encourage or discourage my sons' competitive nature?

Jim: I've heard this same lament from many outnumbered mothers. There are ...Read more