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Q: With a recent change in my job, I'm finally going to be able to spend more time with my family. My kids aren't used to having Dad home much. How can I build and keep up relational momentum with them?

Jim: One of most helpful building blocks to reinforce a strong relationship with our children involves discovering new interests and activities...Read more

Q: I generally try to avoid conflict, especially with my spouse. But we still occasionally argue. That worries me; is it a sign that our relationship is struggling more than we know?

Jim: The presence of conflict doesn't necessarily mean a relationship is in dire straits. In fact, certain types of back-and-forth can actually be an indicator ...Read more

Q: I am getting SO sick and tired of all the negative news in the world. It just never stops. I'm trying to find ways to shift my thinking to positive things. Do you have any suggestions?

Jim: I think we likely all feel what research confirms: Exposure to bad news can have a cumulative negative effect on us. Studies show that stories featuring ...Read more

Q: Long (sad) story short: My husband and I have recently been granted long-term custody of our two young grandkids. Do you have any advice for us as an older couple having to become "parents again"?

Jim: First, I applaud and thank you for having the courage to assume the responsibility of giving your grandchildren a stable, loving, family-...Read more

Q: I have to be creative in my job, but some days I'm just too worn out or uninspired. That stresses me and only makes things worse. Do you have any "hacks" for generating good ideas under pressure?

Jim: I think we've all had moments in life where we need help to get the creative juices flowing. Each of us is different; what works for one ...Read more