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Q: I'm a high-energy person; being busy keeps me happy. I get bored if I'm not doing something -- career, church, socializing, hobbies, volunteer work, etc. A well-meaning friend suggested I slow down but that seems like a waste to me. What's your take?

Jim: Many busy people consider rest to be wasted time. They see an empty space where ...Read more

Q: I recently became an instant stepparent when I married a relatively young widower with two children. I'm doing my best to learn how to be "mom" for my stepkids. But it's a LOT harder to connect than I expected. Help!?

Jim: Stepparenting can be rewarding, but it also comes with significant challenges. In your case, there's the added factor of...Read more

Q: Now that my husband and I are empty nesters, we have more time on our hands and want to invest it in something else meaningful. Can you offer any suggestions?

Jim: During the parenting season, we understandably place great emphasis on the next generation: the children growing up today who will become the leaders of tomorrow. That's certainly...Read more

Q: My two kids are in elementary school. They're both really smart and seem to get along well with peers and teachers. But occasionally they go through rough patches where they're moody and just not keeping up with schoolwork the way I know they can. What can we do?

Jim: There could be a variety of explanations, but I'd start with a simple ...Read more