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Column: The heartbreak and relief of accepting what is
For the better part of this year my brain rejected that my father could not get the care he needed at home.
He has advanced Parkinson’s, and it took a turn for the worse early this spring. My siblings and I were convinced this flare up would be treated like the others in the recent past — a short hospital stay, a stint in rehab to regain ...Read more
On Gardening: This petunia will add Cool Jazz to your garden
Several months ago, The Garden Guy told you about a new Supertunia Vista making its debut in 2026. The color is rare in the garden, especially in petunias. It is called Supertunia Vista Cool Jazz. The Vista series has become the go-to for petunias in both the landscape and containers, which means you should be able to find them at your garden ...Read more
From Marietta to millions, 'Elf on the Shelf' turns 20
ATLANTA -- Traditions around the holidays are meant to be passed down for generations: songs, ornaments, recipes. So creating a new tradition that resonates with families worldwide is nothing short of a Christmas miracle.
But that is exactly what metro Atlantans Carol Aebersold and her twin daughters Chanda Bell and Christa Pitts have pulled ...Read more
Ask Anna: How to handle when your partner and friend don't get along
Dear Anna,
I’m stuck in an uncomfortable spot between two people I care about, and I don’t know how to handle it without blowing something up.
My partner and my closest friend recently got into a pretty heated argument. It wasn’t about our relationship or someone crossing some huge moral line — it was more a clash of personalities and ...Read more
Ask Dating Coach Erika: How do I tell my family to stop asking invasive questions?
Q: My extended family always asks me nosy questions around the holiday season. Is there a way I can tell them not to? And if that doesn’t work, what should I say when they ask? I really don’t want to talk about my love life with them. Thanks!
A: I get it. Even if they have the best intentions, it feels so personal, and often invasive, to be...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Holiday stress
Q: The holidays are coming, and this is my first-year post-breakup. I'm stressed, more emotional than I have ever been, and overwhelmed and not looking forward to interacting with my children's mother. What's good ex-etiquette when you're trying to manage your own stress while co-parenting through the holidays?
A: The holidays amplify ...Read more
Altadena Girls was a fire relief success story. A year later, can it still help as LA moves on?
LOS ANGELES — The s'more bar was finally bubbling at Altadena Girls' new community space.
A few dozen teen and tween girls, all affected by the wildfires that had ripped their town apart in January, came together for a "cozy cabin" hangout night in downtown Pasadena — some making Christmas ornaments while others applied glittery makeup and ...Read more
After a brutal year, is it selfish to feel joyful this holiday season?
LOS ANGELES -- If you feel like joy is elusive this holiday season, you're not alone.
2025 has been an especially punishing year across the planet, the nation and for Los Angeles in particular. In the past 12 months, we've witnessed homes destroyed by fire, families broken up by ICE, skyrocketing anti-trans hate and massive layoffs across the ...Read more
Professors and students create software that helps people communicate and move. It reads your face
HARTFORD, Conn. -- Observing a young man in a wheelchair with motor impairment struggle to communicate with his parents profoundly affected Chetan Jaiswal.
Jaiswal is an associate professor of computer science at Quinnipiac University.
After meeting the boy at an occupational therapy conference in 2022, Jaiswal decided that more could be done...Read more
The Kid Whisperer: How to use love, kindness and limits with a potentially terrible teen
Dear Kid Whisperer,
My son is 10 years old and about to turn 11. We have a great relationship with him, and besides some minor behavior issues (occasionally forgetting to clean up a mess, losing homework, getting mad at his younger sister over silly fights), we really don't have any major problems. People like to remind me to "just wait until ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: First holiday since breakup
Q. Our kids seem overwhelmed since the breakup. This is their first holiday in two separate homes, and they are having trouble even knowing how to talk about the holidays. They're also clingier during exchanges, waking up at night and constantly asking who they'll be with. We keep telling them everything will be OK, but nothing is helping. What'...Read more
When did Christmas cheer get so pushy? How to get offline and save your money
It’s easy to get swept away in the latest viral holiday trend or marketing push. This year, it’s a Ralph Lauren Christmas. Don’t miss the Viral TikTok garland. Stuff your stockings with lippies, digital cameras and ice rollers. Hide the elf on the shelf in a new place every day.
But many of us can’t afford a whole new haul of holiday ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Seeing the Christmas story with more than eyes
The labor and delivery portrayed in the Christmas story has been highly sanitized. We have softened the realities of Christ’s birth with pillowy mounds of straw, cattle gently lowing, moonlight streaming in through strategically placed windows and an inexperienced husband attending the birth like a seasoned OB/GYN who has delivered hundreds.
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Smartphone on your kid's Christmas list? How to know when they're ready
ATLANTA -- Anxious, depressed, isolated and worthless — that’s how the DeKalb County School District said its 91,000 students increasingly feel. From TikTok to YouTube, Georgia’s third-largest school district points to a $4 million social media addiction problem.
Now, paired with new research from the University of Georgia, phone use is ...Read more
Charlie Brown-style real trees are superior: snowshoes are optional
EDITOR’S NOTE: Editorial Page editor Megan Schrader takes a side in the “real vs. fake” Christmas tree debate. Look for the counterpoint by Features coordinator Barbara Ellis, slugged HOME-TREES-DEBATE-FAKE:DP.
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If you’ve tried to buy a fresh Christmas tree since 2020, the sticker shock probably drove you to check out the plastic ...Read more
Jerry Zezima: A chore thing
When it comes to household chores, I work for free. And I’m worth every penny.
But since I’m on a fixed income, I am thinking of charging for my services.
“You don’t do anything,” said my wife, Sue, who is the family banker.
“That’s not true,” I replied defensively.
“What do you do, take out the garbage?” she said.
“...Read more
Fake trees are the way to go: No needles, no sap, no hassle
EDITOR’S NOTE: Features coordinator Barbara Ellis takes a side in the “real vs. fake” Christmas tree debate. Look for the counterpoint by Editorial Page editor Megan Schrader, slugged HOME-TREES-DEBATE-REAL:DP.
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I can still see my dad, hand slapping his forehead, looking exasperated, as my mom instructed (OK, bossed) him on how to �...Read more
Stunt bike influencer takes followers 'behind the tent zipper' in LA encampments
LOS ANGELES — Traveling near the Warehouse District with Derrek Miranda is akin to riding in a motorcade with an elected official.
Under the moniker Whitewallstuntz, Miranda has carved out a name for himself in downtown Los Angeles. On social media, he can be seen cutting through the most downtrodden parts of Skid Row on his white and neon ...Read more
Unintended competitors: Why LA preschools are closing as transitional kindergarten thrives
LOS ANGELES — During the first four years of California's new transitional kindergarten program, 167 community-based preschools in Los Angeles County shut down, unable to financially survive amid enrollment drops or pivot to more costly infant and toddler care, according to new U.C. Berkeley research.
The closures represent some painful and ...Read more
With donated wood and volunteer elves, he crafts 'coolest gifts' for kids
LAWRENCE, Kan. -- As Jay Morris describes how he and a bunch of helpers use chunks of donated wood to create children’s toys each Christmas, one of those volunteers interrupts.
“Jay, we got a wobbly,” neighbor Steve Wood hollers out from across the small woodshop in Morris’ basement in Lawrence, Kansas.
Just like a head elf would do at...Read more
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