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Readers Offer Advice On New Mom's Weight Struggle
DEAR HARRIETTE: I wanted to offer another option to "Overweight," the woman hurt by her brother's comments about her post-pregnancy weight. Could she not go a step further and ask him to babysit for an hour or two a few times a week, so she can have time to herself, to sleep or cook or exercise? Or could he contribute to a healthy meal delivery ...Read more
Couple Struggles With Political Differences
DEAR HARRIETTE: My partner and I have different political views, and with the election coming up, we've been clashing more often. I'm a strong supporter of Kamala Harris and her policies, while my partner has a different perspective. We've always respected each other's opinions, but lately, our discussions have turned into heated arguments. I ...Read more
Mom Considers Suggesting Part-Time Work For Teen
DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm the mother of a 16-year-old daughter who loves shopping and frequently goes out with her friends to the mall, the movies and various other places. Up until now, I've always paid for her extra experiences -- whether that's her shopping sprees, lunches or outings with her friends. Financially, I can afford all of these things ...Read more
Sibling Wants To Support Gay Brother Amid Family Tensions
DEAR HARRIETTE: My younger brother, who is only 12, recently came out as gay, and while I fully support him, my parents are struggling to accept it. They keep insisting it's just a phase, and it's heartbreaking to watch. I've tried having conversations with them about being more open-minded, but they seem resistant to the idea. I feel caught ...Read more
Sibling's Comment Causes Marital Tension Over Pregnancy
DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm feeling uneasy after a recent family dinner celebrating my brother-in-law's birthday. During the gathering, I mentioned that my older sister, his wife, told me she was purposely avoiding losing weight because she doesn't want to get pregnant. I didn't mean to bring it up, but it's clear my brother-in-law really wants to have ...Read more