ArcaMax

DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently matched with someone on a dating app, and after chatting for a bit, we realized we work at the same company. It's a huge organization, so we had never crossed paths before -- until, of course, we suddenly started running into each other in the office after matching. We never acknowledged it directly, and since then, ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently noticed that my partner still follows his ex on social media, and not only that, but he still likes most of her posts. They've been broken up for two years, and from what I know, she was the one who ended things. It's not like he's leaving flirty comments or anything inappropriate, but I can't help but feel uneasy ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I moved into a new apartment building recently, and while I love the location and my unit, I've been having a tricky time with one of my neighbors. They frequently leave passive-aggressive notes about noise, even when I'm careful to keep my music low and avoid loud activities. Sometimes the notes feel exaggerated or unfair, and ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: This year has been extremely busy for me and my core friend group. No matter how much we try, it seems like every time we try to pick a time we can all be available to catch up and do something together, we fail. I recognize that being busy is not always something people can change, but still, isn't it important to make time for ...Read more

DEAR HARRIETTE: I am one of the many people who have lost their job this year due to the pushback against diversity, equity and inclusion programs. I have an advanced degree and decades of experience in my field, and it doesn't seem to matter. I am having a difficult time finding work in this environment. What's worse is that some of my "friends...Read more